Archive for July, 2009

Here we are three years since “The Secret” book and video introduced some of the once esoteric principles for the mainstream, primarily the Law of Attraction – “Like attracts Like,” and “Change your thoughts and you change your life.” Is there truth to the Law of Attraction? Yes!

So what has happened? What’s missing?

Other than President Obama having been elected, not too many positive events and aspects have emerged.

I say we’re skipping a big step by not bringing out and dealing with the middle level of who we are. That is, the circumstantial, day-to-day challenging emotions, thoughts and situations that comprise us and our lives. Instead we tend to push them down and work the techniques delivered in “The Secret.”

My Break-THRU workshops for twenty years have successfully helped people deal with whatever is in the way to getting and manifesting what’s next, the next level in their careers and lives. If nothing were in the way, we’d be there and have it already.

I believe in a combination of dealing with the middle/circumstantial layers and challenges. Start consciously working with your thoughts and feelings. Become aware of your feelings and what’s really going on for you and then work that into a more positive possibility.

This combination will be a potent technique for living the life of your dreams.

Reset for a long life, for enthusiasm, for vitality. The natural order of things is to complete life/career projects, relationships, places we live in. The natural order also has us RESTORE and begin again.

Completion is thrilling for some, depressing for others. The one sure thing is that every project ends at least a specific phase you set out to accomplish. Restoring can be a month of travel, a week at a Spa, or a weekend spent in an unusual way in your own home town. The idea is not to work and to do fun and or restful things such as: a matinee followed by an evening performance of 2 Broadway or Off Broadway shows you’ve wanted to see. Now it’s worth the money ‘cause it’s part of your vacation. Also try a Day Spa (men or women).

Take a helicopter ride out to the Hamptons or Fire Island if you live in NY, the desert or Palm Springs if you live in L.A., or ride up the coast to San Francisco. Try the equivalent of this in your own state. In Paris, enjoy a weekend of shopping including the flea market and dining. Try a wine orchard with wine tastings, or an athletic weekend both as spectator and participant. If you are really at a low energy ebb, try bed rest with a good book, take in food, light exercise, a long walk preferably in a park or near the ocean and then a massage, meditation, a yoga class/chanting, acupuncture. Energy does come back along with your sense of humor and the desire for something new to do.

Now for new Beginnings: become aware of everything that is now surrounding you including new people, new invitations, new possibilities for Projects. There are many opportunities that will be challenging your patterns which are immediately in your proximity. They may be hard to notice because they do challenge you and put you up against your usual parameters. How do you know if it’s the right path for you to take for your Life/Career project? Relationship? A new adventure? A new business or a new living situation? Does it excite you? Does it drain or energize you? Can you feel a quickening of your energy flowing? Once it feels good, even with your normal considerations about how it can happen, can you do it? Give it a solid few minutes to make sure you have a way to handle yourself (finances included).

Ready!!! Commit, get into action, observe what unfolds. Seeing the results you are getting and experiencing how you are feeling and thriving will always give you the answer.

One thing is for sure: this too will complete, you will restore and then begin again. Your awareness of this natural cycle will perhaps give you the courage to take less time floundering in between and encourage you to step out of your everyday box and be inspired to expand your capabilities and horizons.